Saturday, December 6, 2014

How to Strengthen Relations?



Relationships should be vibrant and full of energy. A languid relation brings disaster for all the parties involved in it. Especially, relations laced with love should be like live wire. Beware of mawkish relations; they bring tragedy. One should not forge any relation with maudlin mentality people as that sort of relation ends up with sacrificing one’s self.

Just like how a gardener ploughs away weeds every now and then, one has to identify and pluck away all the inchoate relations from one’s own life, frequently. Please remember; if you add so many restrictions to a relation, it suffocates and dies. On the other side, too much freedom loosens and lightens a relation; making the stakeholders of that relation feel that they are there as individuals but not as a group.  

Followers of nihilism cannot understand the value of a relation. A relation, based on its quality and category (ex: father, mother, friend, relative, etc) has lot much to offer. There are so many instances in this world where people who nurtured their relations have achieved an accelerated growth and outsmarted their enemies within a short period of time. People who understand the potential of a relation, tries to grow it by feeding it with lot of love and affection. Once the relation matures, then it starts giving the respective stakeholders all those benefits based on its potential.

In summary, all relations start from fledgling stage. It depends up on the partners of that relation to strengthen and make it grow.

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