World - Theories & Their Followers

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Believing a sworn enemy is tough to anyone. However, if at all someone decides to take that risk, then what sort of precautions he has to take? Again, because we are using the word ‘precaution’, does it mean that the belief is not 100%? And in what scenario does one has to believe in his sworn enemy?

Enemy and belief cannot go together in a sentence. If they are there, then it looks like that this sentence is part of an oxymoron speech. But, what type of people does that? People who believe in pacifism; they do not believe in the ratiocination of the world of which they are part of. They show overweening confidence in rapprochement with enemies. Actually, as per them, there is no such thing called enmity in this world. There is no US and THEM but WE.

Enmity is a sordid stuff. Solemn people, who believe in pacifism, avoid enmity in all circumstances. However, the twist is that the same pacifism believers fight with their wife or girl friend to enjoy swashbuckling adventures in their personal lives. In this case, they don’t believe in pacifism stuff!

Any self proclaimed core follower of a theory has to implement his believed theory in all areas of his life, which is not the case in this world. In summary, any theory is suitable to be followed only in certain areas of life; not all. Does this mean no theory is perfect?

How to Manage Your Temper?

Temper is a great emotion. Normally, the tendency is to treat that as a bad emotion.  People who got more temper show exasperate behavior. Their attitude is ineffable. Once the temper rises in them, they become insouciant to others and lose their ratiocination. What makes a person get angry depends on so many reasons; for example: personal, family, financial, etc.

Life is a set of mottled expressions. If a nexus forms between all the events that happen in our lives, then they will be in a pacific [peaceful] state without any hiccups. Grumpy people have very little tolerance. Half of their life, they focus on petty things which destroy peace both in their case and their surroundings.

A few people maintain a cool expression though they are serious inside. These people know how to maintain themselves when their tempers flare up.  They simply do not put display their bad temper to their subordinates or dependents. Life is a 2-way road. It does not take much time to boomerang what you dished out a few hours ago.

In summary, it is always better to control your temper and channelize its energy to accomplish what you have been dreaming for.

Try it!

How to Cut Down Obesity?

Obesity! The new disease on the block; so many people are affected by this already. Living life becomes tough with this. Even day-to-day activities become difficult to do. Excess weight leads to bone problems. The skin becomes loose and gives a flabby look. In the case of a few people, even standing becomes difficult. Sitting always in a same place ruptures skin and this leads to additional problems. After a certain point, even doing small exercises becomes difficult. On the whole, living life itself becomes a big hurdle.

There are so many fixes out there across the world, which promise to cut down obesity within a span of a few hours to days. There are renowned doctors and surgeons, who have been prescribing fixes for obesity left, right, and center. Nevertheless, so far, no one prescribed a permanent fix for obesity. People who have undergone the knife are seeing instant results. However, these results are for short period and these are based on severe diet restrictions. If the diet restrictions have not been followed, regaining back to old form won’t take much time.

People do what not to cut down obesity. The most frequently instantly used weapon is to starve them for a certain period. Cut down on carbohydrate diet and take only protein diet. Hit gym and rigorously train one’s self under the guidance of a trainer to come into shape. Ladies, particularly, try to do all the preceding points every day until they see themselves in shape. If nothing is working, people undergo operations, where a certain part of the stomach is punched off to limit the food intake permanently. This way, people become lean within a short span of time. However, the other side of the issue is side effects.

In summary, nowadays, being in shape has lot of importance. Obesity throws body out off the guard. Even, after doing rigorous exercise and taking proper diet, if obesity does not go down, then it is better to consult a doctor immediately. It is always better to nip something in the bud.  If parents identify that their children to obesity, then they have to precautionary measures immediately.

Happy health!

Pursuing Pet Projects in Workplaces

The concept of allowing to work on one’s pet projects in office time is an innovative concept. There are companies (around the world), who have been toying with this idea and already started reaping so many benefits. What is it that motivates people to innovate? When they innovate? Only if we say that something is yours, only then people start to put their entire focus on that task and produce fabulous results? Or is it that quality time that they spend with themselves or with like-minded people while working on their pet project that helps them to produce incredible results?

Whatever is the reason, pet projects have special status in one’s own life. While working on official projects, people brainstorm a lot to prove themselves competent to their superiors and peers. They focus their entire energy on one point. They exhaust themselves. Then, they go home. Normally, in this scenario, the next step what anyone expects is to take rest. However, in the case of a person who works on a pet project in parallel, the moment he glances it, his every nerves tightens with excitement. All that exhaustiveness goes out of the window and he regains back his active energy state. Although he has to work a lot on his pet projects, he never feels that he needs lot of energy to accomplish that many tasks. And he is eager to do them without complaining about anything.

Companies and pet projects can go hand in hand. They can mutually support each other in terms of commercial aspects; that means, once a pet project becomes a success and is in line with company’s business, either it can buy it or support the person/group (who successfully completed the project), financially, by buying a stake in their project.

In summary, pet projects really excite people. If they get a chance to work up on them in their workplace, the excitement grows by leaps and bounds. And there is a chance that all like-minded hitherto introvert people also join the project and contribute their level best to make it a success.

Best of luck!

Stretching Hours at Workplace – Right or Wrong?

Most of the people hate this work hour stretching business. However, a few people love to do this. The reasons for doing so may vary. But they do it with penchant. Nevertheless, people stretch their hours at work place in various interesting ways. If a few people don’t prefer to go after their working hours due to some family problems, others continue doing work as if there is no tomorrow after working hours to gain their superior’s attention and peer’s sympathy. Rest, simply don’t know what to do once they reach home [most of the bachelors/spinsters who are working in remote places with no night life access falls in this category] also prefer to spend their after working hours in the workplace.

However, we need to know whether stretching hours at work place is good for our career. The answer is a strict NO. The question is why you have to stretch your hours in the first place? Whatever may be your reason, it does not give a good opinion about you to your superiors.

However, if you are planning to stay late, the best thing is that you should let your superior know beforehand why you are going to do it on a particular day. Most of the times, it is better if you complete your assigned tasks on the specified time and push off at the right time from the office premises. Unnecessary stretching just to grab attention creates unwanted problems; sometimes, extra work would be passed on to you by your peers who take it for granted that you stay there at least 4 hours after your working hours. And other times, your peers may think like this; since you are not efficient for getting things done in specified time, you stretch your hours, unreasonably.

In summary, getting things done in specified number of hours when it comes to office work is good for your body, mind, soul, and career. Unnecessary stretching of hours for attention grabbing business or just to get a hike by inciting sympathy in the heart of your superior may backfire most of the times.

Good luck!

How to Control Rudeness in Society?

Rudeness or incivility is not entertained in civilized societies. Being rude to anyone is considered as bad manners. However, we have people staying with us who act rude to get their things done day-in and -out. Is rudeness a weapon or an uncontrollable attitude which people develop since their childhood?  If this is a behavioral problem, what plans do teachers have to nip this disgusting behavior in the bud? How parents deal with this behavior of their kids and try to avoid it in the initial stage itself?

A person is given respect in this society based on his dress, manners, and culture. If the guy is not up to the mark in not even in a single parameter, his social status goes down. And for so many people in this society, social status is important. Kings in olden days used to have people who are paid to praise the king whenever he wants. And what they praise? The answer is that king’s previous valorous deeds, mind-blowing donations, his way of bringing down his enemies, etc. Nevertheless, if the same person who has been praising the king utters even one negative statement about the same king due to slip of tongue or whatever, he was used to be given severe punishment for his rudeness; most of the cases, it is severing of head.

We maintain double standards when it comes to rudeness. Nowadays, in reel world, we see heroes oozing rudeness in all their activities. He utters uncivilized rude dialogs every now and then and the world claps as if he revealed some hidden truth that has the potential to save this world from falling into utter chaos. The same statement, if a person in the real world makes, then utter chaos happens not only around that person but also regarding the statement he made. This hypocrisy has to stop. Actually, by entertaining this hypocrisy, we are not sending a right message to the future generations.

In summary, everyone should realize that rudeness is bad and entertaining it pushes us back to Stone Age. We all should promise to ourselves to condemn rudeness in any form whenever we encounter it.

Good luck! 

How to Negotiate Slopes During Trekking?

People refer hill ‘slope’ as an analogy to indicate ‘difficulties’ and ‘easiness’ in a particular situation in their discussions. To convey that a particular task is difficult to do, they say it is an uphill task. If doing a particular task is so easy, then they say it is just like running down a slope. However, if you are a trekker, in either case (while going down and climbing up), you need to be very careful. The first thing is that you should need a good pair of sneakers, which have a good grip, and other supporting trekking equipment, which helps you to save yourself from falling down while negotiating slopes.

Running on steep slopes is quite dangerous as the possibility of falling down and breaking your knees is more. You need lot of control over your body while negotiating slopes. If you are going up the slope, you have to spend lot of energy. Athletes train themselves negotiating slopes. They religiously go for uphill slopes to increase their stamina. Downhill slopes require lot of control on your body; however, your body consumes less energy while going down the slope compared to going up.

Ankles play a great role in your body while dealing with slopes. Steeper the angle, more the grip you require. The chances of getting skid are more while negotiating steeper slopes. You need to wear sneakers, which have a good grip.

When you are trying to climb a hill, during trekking, always look out for something strong to hold and which gives you a grip. The best thing is to have a strong stick in your hand which has a sharp edge. So, before you make a step, first, try to pierce the stick (with the sharp edge side) in the ground with force. Once you get the hold, then move your body one step further. This way, you can minimize the chances of falling down the slope.

In summary, slopes test your energy and patience levels. If your body is fit and you have a technique, then you are ready to go. Otherwise, get ready to break your bones!

Good luck!

Is Serendipity there in Your Life?

Why some people experience serendipity in their lives while majority of the others cannot do that? Is serendipity experience limited to a selected few? Why so? On what basis does one can experience serendipity?

 Serendipity is the fortunate occurrence of events by chance. Are these people the chosen ones? In this world, people who have experienced serendipity, in most of the cases, they become either uber rich or knowledgeable. All panegyric speeches in this world, in general, talk about rich, bold, and rectitude behaviors. If a person does good deeds in this birth, serendipity comes his way in future births to make his life easy; this is the way most of the eastern countries think. Their religious philosophy also supports this saying.

If rectitude behavior is the key to experience serendipity, which in turn lot of pleasant surprises, then why in this world not many people are following that? Does this mean doing bad things give more pleasure than doing good? Or people cannot wait for such a long time to experience pleasant serendipity related surprises? Anyway, people have that pleasure seeking attitude and they do everything to experience them.

Happiness is the underlying reason why people pursue different tasks. From a mentally disabled person, who maunders to himself, to a noveau riche, who squanders his wealth with incivility, everyone pursues happiness. Happiness pursuing is there in spiritual angle also; take the case of a saint who scampers every day morning to take bath and worship his lord is nothing but a case of pursuing happiness. However, all these happiness pursuing events are part of serendipity in everyone’s life.

In summary, serendipity is there in all of our lives. However, the quality and quantity of that pleasantness is little for a few and medium or huge for some others. The reason for this variance lies in our good deeds done in our previous births; as per eastern philosophy. 

How to Spend Your Riches?

What is the point of being rich if you cannot spend a single penny either for yourself or needy people around you? If you think, you are saving money, then it can be taken as noting but a ridiculous statement. We are all here on this planet as visitors. However, when we started our journey on this planet, the Supreme Power, whom we believe that has sent us here, has given some of us good health, fame, money, etc, along with different talents and skills. Besides, everyone is given something intangible thing called LUCK. Although its percentage is very little in any one of our case, but it rules a significant part of our life.

Incredulously, when we leave this planet, we can’t and won’t take anything along with us. All those panegyric speeches, parsimonious behaviors, incivility attitude, etc, we leave here.  Saints, who roamed around this planet long time ago, told us in their maundering that we all have to focus on HIM; not on the goods that he has given us.

Serendipity is something initiated by Supreme Power in the lives of a few, who has done good deeds in their previous births. During this good period, if we do bad things to others, then again the same Supreme Power punishes us by filling our lives with poorness and dumbness. All of us, most of the times, scamper our way to God, every day morning, and request HIM ‘N’ number of wishes. We promise that we don’t do bad things but never try to implement that rectitude behavior in real-time.

We all need to realize that the day we start doing bad things in life and get benefits from them, we are travelling on a scarp with NO RETURN ticket. By the time people realize this, they might have traveled several miles on that scarp and now, it is not possible for them to return to pious life.

The lifestyle followed by noveau riche is one example to support the above statement. As long as they lay their hands on wealth, they spend it on different not useful activities. Once the coffers are empty, only then they remember who they are and what they can do on this planet.

In summary, as long as you are in possession of money and skill, try to be useful to those needy others around you by adding value to whatever they do.

Good luck!

Writer’s Contribution to this Planet

A writer’s pen name [nom de plume] is a reflection of his character and mindset. While a few writers opt for opposite sex names, some go with things names that brought them luck, and rest go with peculiar phrases  for easy popularity and recognition.

A writer always has to outwit his reader. Predictability in his writings sounds anathema to a writer’s popularity. Having a particular bent of mind and using a few regular words to describe all varieties of situations, do not take a writer to places in today’s world. Using trendy words, infusing fire in your reader’s thoughts, bringing inspiration to your reader’s soul, etc, are expected from a writer nowadays.

Bringing completeness to inchoate ideas is an art which every writer has to learn. An accomplished writer brings his best even while describing a fogey, mawkish, and languid person and projects him as a hero, which his reader wants to willingly identify himself with. That sort of talent cannot come to a person who does not sense what is happening around him and what his readers are hungry for. If you prefer to sit in a corner and write, then you are not writing for your audience but for yourself. It is like sitting in a landlocked place and dreaming about the sunset on a sea shore.

A maudlin attitude writer cannot shine in the market. Financially, most of the writers are not up to the mark because they are incredibly underpaid. Every now and then, we hear about a writer who got fame and money after he died long time ago. While he was living and writing all that stuff, he was facing lot of problems and suffering. May be that suffering has pushed him to write that excellent stuff, which took time for people to realize and start valuing his writings at premium level only after his death. However, there are other writers who initially got fame and money, reached their zenith at a very young age, but crashed down within no time for various reasons. Vices, how small they are, lead to one’s own nemesis.

Irrespective of any language, all the writers across the world share one common thing: capturing their incredible imagination in words. This world survives and advances based on its ability to pass on the existing knowledge to its next generation. And writer’s contribution for this knowledge transfer, since human’s day one on this planet, is very critical.

Mind it!

How to Strengthen Relations?

Relationships should be vibrant and full of energy. A languid relation brings disaster for all the parties involved in it. Especially, relations laced with love should be like live wire. Beware of mawkish relations; they bring tragedy. One should not forge any relation with maudlin mentality people as that sort of relation ends up with sacrificing one’s self.

Just like how a gardener ploughs away weeds every now and then, one has to identify and pluck away all the inchoate relations from one’s own life, frequently. Please remember; if you add so many restrictions to a relation, it suffocates and dies. On the other side, too much freedom loosens and lightens a relation; making the stakeholders of that relation feel that they are there as individuals but not as a group.  

Followers of nihilism cannot understand the value of a relation. A relation, based on its quality and category (ex: father, mother, friend, relative, etc) has lot much to offer. There are so many instances in this world where people who nurtured their relations have achieved an accelerated growth and outsmarted their enemies within a short period of time. People who understand the potential of a relation, tries to grow it by feeding it with lot of love and affection. Once the relation matures, then it starts giving the respective stakeholders all those benefits based on its potential.

In summary, all relations start from fledgling stage. It depends up on the partners of that relation to strengthen and make it grow.

How an Introvert Love Dies?

You know, sometimes, people who are introverts, enter in to dynamic love relationships. Although, they are not sure about themselves, they put lot of belief in their partners to make their love successful (how funny!). Effort-wise, one cannot expect much from an introvert, physically. For example, giving flowers to his/her love every day, telling jokes to make him/her laugh, etc. However, in their hearts, love volcanoes explode every second they think about their partner.

Since there is a huge gap between what they think inside and their expression, most of the times, they get frustrated with themselves. As they build expectations based on their inner feelings about their love partner, which the target partner does not know and because of that reason cannot satisfy the introvert partner’s loving needs, love meter in this case does not cross even safety speed limits.

After spending some time, the other partner realizes that his/her love is not getting reciprocated as per their self expectations; slowly they plan to MOVE ON. The introvert realizes this but still unable to come to terms to save the relation as s/he has to come out of that introvert shell.

An introvert love dies that way!

One-side Love!

One-side love! What is it like? Why people go for it? Why they do it even after knowing that they have to face a disastrous end in that kind of relation? One side love is inchoate; not fully developed. Whoever opts for this love, indirectly, they are locking themselves from other opportunities; similar to a landlocked situation.  

But, who opts for this kind of suicidal relation (is this a relation!)? Answer:  people, who have maudlin mentality and mawkish attitude. Their languid nature with no fire in their heart for some risk appetite and tempting nature for emotional comfort makes them like a ‘ sitting duck’ to get outwitted by their cunning love partners, every time; finally, forcing the person to face the nemesis because of his/her own incompetent actions.

Times changed. The way you love is also changing. Don’t be a fogey! No one pities you even if you get ditched by your witty partner; that is the tendency nowadays! In love, emotional people are more prone to get cheated or taken ride by others, who have that nihilism mentality.

Just like how a writer needs a popular pen name (non de plume), a good pen and a cutting-edge idea to write a ground-breaking story, successful love partnership needs two good lovers who believe in each other. One-side love does not qualify as complete love. It is like a cold call from a call center person in the hope of getting some business, which most of the time ends up in rejection. After reading all the above stuff, if you still opt for one-side love, not even a single soul on this planet can save you from getting ditched.

Best of luck!