How an Introvert Love Dies?

You know, sometimes, people who are introverts, enter in to dynamic love relationships. Although, they are not sure about themselves, they put lot of belief in their partners to make their love successful (how funny!). Effort-wise, one cannot expect much from an introvert, physically. For example, giving flowers to his/her love every day, telling jokes to make him/her laugh, etc. However, in their hearts, love volcanoes explode every second they think about their partner.

Since there is a huge gap between what they think inside and their expression, most of the times, they get frustrated with themselves. As they build expectations based on their inner feelings about their love partner, which the target partner does not know and because of that reason cannot satisfy the introvert partner’s loving needs, love meter in this case does not cross even safety speed limits.

After spending some time, the other partner realizes that his/her love is not getting reciprocated as per their self expectations; slowly they plan to MOVE ON. The introvert realizes this but still unable to come to terms to save the relation as s/he has to come out of that introvert shell.

An introvert love dies that way!

One-side Love!

One-side love! What is it like? Why people go for it? Why they do it even after knowing that they have to face a disastrous end in that kind of relation? One side love is inchoate; not fully developed. Whoever opts for this love, indirectly, they are locking themselves from other opportunities; similar to a landlocked situation.  

But, who opts for this kind of suicidal relation (is this a relation!)? Answer:  people, who have maudlin mentality and mawkish attitude. Their languid nature with no fire in their heart for some risk appetite and tempting nature for emotional comfort makes them like a ‘ sitting duck’ to get outwitted by their cunning love partners, every time; finally, forcing the person to face the nemesis because of his/her own incompetent actions.

Times changed. The way you love is also changing. Don’t be a fogey! No one pities you even if you get ditched by your witty partner; that is the tendency nowadays! In love, emotional people are more prone to get cheated or taken ride by others, who have that nihilism mentality.

Just like how a writer needs a popular pen name (non de plume), a good pen and a cutting-edge idea to write a ground-breaking story, successful love partnership needs two good lovers who believe in each other. One-side love does not qualify as complete love. It is like a cold call from a call center person in the hope of getting some business, which most of the time ends up in rejection. After reading all the above stuff, if you still opt for one-side love, not even a single soul on this planet can save you from getting ditched.

Best of luck!