Love

What is love? Someone thinks it is nothing but Iust; whereas someone else thinks it is nothing but sacrifice. Who is right? Does love always ends with sacrifice?

In love, both the partners try to understand each other. And this is what everyone thinks, expects, and understands. But, in reality what is happening? Either the  boy or girl goes frontfoot and offers wherever he or she can at that moment to the other party and finally realizes that the other party took advantage of them and used them till the last drop and finally ditched them.

This blog is not saying that this kind of things are happening in all the love cases. But in whichever case it is happening, it wants to enlighten the sacrificing party to introspect before they move further in terms of whether their sacrifice is worth? Both Iife and time are precious in everybody's life. And it is always better to recheck what we are doing, at any point in life, to make every second of our life worth.

Take care.

How an Introvert Love Dies?

You know, sometimes, people who are introverts, enter in to dynamic love relationships. Although, they are not sure about themselves, they put lot of belief in their partners to make their love successful (how funny!). Effort-wise, one cannot expect much from an introvert, physically. For example, giving flowers to his/her love every day, telling jokes to make him/her laugh, etc. However, in their hearts, love volcanoes explode every second they think about their partner.

Since there is a huge gap between what they think inside and their expression, most of the times, they get frustrated with themselves. As they build expectations based on their inner feelings about their love partner, which the target partner does not know and because of that reason cannot satisfy the introvert partner’s loving needs, love meter in this case does not cross even safety speed limits.

After spending some time, the other partner realizes that his/her love is not getting reciprocated as per their self expectations; slowly they plan to MOVE ON. The introvert realizes this but still unable to come to terms to save the relation as s/he has to come out of that introvert shell.

An introvert love dies that way!

One-side Love!

One-side love! What is it like? Why people go for it? Why they do it even after knowing that they have to face a disastrous end in that kind of relation? One side love is inchoate; not fully developed. Whoever opts for this love, indirectly, they are locking themselves from other opportunities; similar to a landlocked situation.  

But, who opts for this kind of suicidal relation (is this a relation!)? Answer:  people, who have maudlin mentality and mawkish attitude. Their languid nature with no fire in their heart for some risk appetite and tempting nature for emotional comfort makes them like a ‘ sitting duck’ to get outwitted by their cunning love partners, every time; finally, forcing the person to face the nemesis because of his/her own incompetent actions.

Times changed. The way you love is also changing. Don’t be a fogey! No one pities you even if you get ditched by your witty partner; that is the tendency nowadays! In love, emotional people are more prone to get cheated or taken ride by others, who have that nihilism mentality.

Just like how a writer needs a popular pen name (non de plume), a good pen and a cutting-edge idea to write a ground-breaking story, successful love partnership needs two good lovers who believe in each other. One-side love does not qualify as complete love. It is like a cold call from a call center person in the hope of getting some business, which most of the time ends up in rejection. After reading all the above stuff, if you still opt for one-side love, not even a single soul on this planet can save you from getting ditched.

Best of luck!

How Love Changes HIM?

When a person is in love, his perception regarding everything he sees in his daily life changes. His core inner personality becomes so flexible that mentally he becomes ready to change or mould himself in whatever way his partner wants. All those aggressive traits, which he has been feeding so long, he shoves them under his cool demeanor. He tries to WOW everyone that he comes across in his day-to-day life. He sees different amusing things in earlier monotonous stuff [even cows start dancing in his dreams and doves cry for revenge!], starts taking the same old grumpy things so lightly, and keeps his mood in happy mode at all times. He mows down all those bad habits of his to impress his partner and always look for opportunity to sow ‘happy future’ seeds in her mind about their life partnership.  Every now and then, he checks his partner moves, make a mental note, and tows himself to her wherever she goes.

These changes happen to the mindset of every person who is genuinely in love with someone with whom he decides to spend the rest of his life.

Man’s Ignorance VS. Nature’s Fury

Who does not love nature? Its breathtaking beauty is every poet’s muse and every lover’s inspiration! Tired of dwelling in cool nature’s lap, man wanted to try something new. He started exploring the unique opportunities that he can lay his hands on and through streamlined discovery and iron will, he continually pushed himself and other beings to the edge of life’s space in the name of progress. When pollution started to creeping in, he didn’t realize the negative effects of it but started to find signals through its hissing noise. His curiosity to explore the strange and magical threads of nature’s bounties (minerals, ores, etc) made him to dig for them more. As a result, planet Earth is left with digged holes and empty desert like spaces.

Everyone knows about nature’s fury. When nature realized what man, the sole intelligent product of plant Earth, has been doing and how he is pushing life to the edge of space, it decided to teach man a lesson in its own way. It created and sent TSUNAMI; man now dreads of this word like never before. One tsunami is enough to push him back to the Stone Age. Repeated attacks like this could push man to the primitive stage. However, man is yet to understand the depth of Nature’s fury. He is still trying to be in his own dreams of destruction.

Stay informed; because Nature won’t leave man this time if he makes another grave mistake! Amen!